Additional Reading and Information on Sex and Self-Love

Epic Sex, by Tantra teacher Layla Martin

How To Make Me Come, stories from women

Self Love Course:  40 Days of Self Love (***my favorite course, only $97)

Embracea body image documentary by Taryn Brumfitt

Petals, a collection which "presents a series of fourty-eight exquisitely photographed sepia-toned pictures of vulvas".   

Pussy, a new book by Regena Thomashauer about claiming our sexual pleasure

The Clitoris is Mostly Internal and the size of a zucchini.  Please google this for yourself!

MakeLoveNotPorn.TV:  real couples having sex.  Porn makes you want to masturbate.  This will make you want to have sex.

Gay and Katie Hendricks:  the greatest aphrodisiac is your relationship with yourself 

Tracy McMillan :  marry yourself before you marry anyone else

Dr. Jennifer Gunsaullus: TED talks on sex/shame and sex/mindfulness.  

Esther Perel on desire in long term relationships, why people in happy marriages cheat, and much more

Dr. Emily Nagoski on responsive vs. spontaneous desire,  arousal nonconcordance, dual control model of sexual response 

Dr. Zhana Vrangalova on the science of casual sex and non-monogamy

Connie Huebner channeling Mother Divine on loving yourself, trusting  yourself.

Dr. Betty Dodson on orgasms, masturbation, the clitoris